Don/`/t ever allow people to come up with a solution for your life that appears to be a problem in their mindset.
God has ordained your faith walk and gave you the promise. Believe God! Don/`/t allow the tare to smother and stunt your faith seed from growing.
Abraham had to go forth on what God told him to do. Giving uncle Little Jack the peace sign, He came from among his kinfolk. He Moved by faith. Yes it was uncomfortable for yet a little while. He left all but gained more. And yes we are his seed through faith. There is no such thing as premature faith.
Let noone stunt your growth. Even Jesus said get thee behind me satan to Peter as Peter attempted to block Growth. Jesus knew what He had to endure. Oh, but for the joy!
You see, God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise. 1 Corinthians 1:27. It doesn/`/t make sense, it makes faith. Besides, when your situation is ordained by God, there is nothing they can do. You will have to trust God and enjoy HIS favor along the way.